Manager Tools has an excellent podcast about the importance of the introduction part of an interview, which typically lasts for about the first 5 minutes of the meeting. I recommend this podcast to anyone who will ever go on a job interview (which is the vast majority of us) because it discusses real, actionable behaviors that you can address and incorporate into your interview tactics. While the entire episode is worth at least one listen, one of the most critical aspects of the interview that I think gets overlooked is the all-important handshake, and I think this is just as applicable to a sales call as it is an interview.
The handshake is the universal greeting of the American business world, and as such, you have an infinite number of reasons to want to develop a good one. Many handshakes are too flimsy, too overpowering, or just plain weird, and this is an immediate turn-off to a prospect. However, if you follow a few simple guidelines, you can start any sales call or meeting off on the right foot by delivering a fantastic handshake.
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Approach from the front: People don’t like to be surprised. While this is generally not an issue in a sales call, it is extremely important to remember at a networking event, a party, or just out on the street. If you are going to introduce yourself and go for the handshake, make certain that they see you coming. If you take care to do this correctly, they are much more likely to see your introduction as such, and not as an intrusion.
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Firm, but not bone-crushing: This is the most commonly flubbed-up part of a handshake. Grip their hand firmly; let them know you are there, but also ensure that your handshake doesn’t warrant a trip to the emergency room. The flipside of this is the flimsy handshake, which is what many people have a natural tendency to give. A handshake is a crucial part of your first impression. If your handshake is weak or timid, your prospect will assume that you are, too.
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Nothing weird or too casual: You know what this means. No coming into the handshake with a slap, no gang handshakes, no post-handshake bro-hugs, etc. I feel that if you even have to hear this one, you should seriously address your overall professional image, but I say it nonetheless. In short, don’t shake your prospect’s hand like you would shake your college buddies’ hands.
What other tips do you have for a great handshake? Do you have any experiences with particularly bad ones? What other advice would you give for someone to make the best first impression in an interview or sales call?